The Danger Of Expectation pt. 1
Expectations in relationship be it friendship or marriage has caused wreckage of the ship. Expecting to be treated with love, empathy, selflessness and respect but your expectations are drained.
Expectations in relationship be it friendship or marriage has caused wreckage of the ship. Expecting to be treated with love, empathy, selflessness and respect but your expectations are drained.
Every test and trial leads to a new level of trust. A point comes when a man is said to be a member of the board of trustees that us, people who God has release Himself to trust. But it all starts by a man putting his trust in God.
Saul the first king of Israel was a servant king but David was a friend king. All the time Saul was king, God only sent him on errands but, when David became king, he was a king that God could commit His heart, His purposes, and His covenant because he chose to walk with God.
LOOKING AT YOURSELF FROM ANOTHER PERSON’S OPINION IS LIKE LOOKING AT YOUR FACE IN A BROKEN MIRROR.
Take it to the ancient of days, the one who made you. He knows the origin and the solution. He knew it even before it came upon you. He knows the solution even before the problems arise, just as He made 2million years old stars even before the universe came to be.
When you do, you will see Him working in every aspect your life, carving out the excesses and filling the hollows. The moment these obstacles and inner problems are dealt with, The fullness of what God put inside you will surface.
So how you act towards that person goes a long way to show that you care or don’t care about the person. How you treat that person shows if you want them to succeed or not.
On and on they grow, little by little they gain power. They grow inside you, feeding on your desperation for self appeasement. They grow until they become more powerful than the host.
Have you found yourself in a place where the Word of God is sound and alive? You must have been innoculated with the genes of your fathers there and you have to embrace the calling of that body. This is because that calling runs in the blood-the blood of Christ.
Look into your life few minutes every day; what are those good things you know about yourself? Are they good or not?
Dear teen, you will not be pressured into unacceptable lifestyles to make you feel useful or relevant if you know that your sense of being is in God and deep within you.
But break down the walls of that city and all manner of people and things will have entrance, and everything becomes diluted as a result intermingling.
Imagine Jesus Christ refusing to forgive us when we err. Imagine yourself dying in that state. Will you count Him faithful or unfaithful? He forgave all and He is still in the business of forgiving men.
One with God is majority, and alliance with God covers you in every situation. But when this alliance is broken, you will have to go in search of different people for different situations, and you are at the mercy of man who himself is as powerless as you are.
Dear friends, there is a reason why “Thank you” is among the magic words. If someone does you good, thank the person. It just might be the only good thing the person has received that day.
If you don’t still know God’s purpose for you in life then know that you are still working. A walker of God is one who has surrendered her life and all to God through His son Jesus. You can work and miss your way but you can’t walk and miss your mansion.
If you are having issues in most of your relationships, then search yourself. You need a sitting of the Refiner on you. Just put on the right attitude. You can’t be a gracious woman and an unforgiving woman or a woman filled with hate at the same time.
The good you do finds its way back to you, because good always knows the way back to its owner.
God’s reward is so great that you can’t exhaust it all. That is why He blesses not only you but your family also, and anyone who is connected to your grace. Even to generations to come..
Immediately, the couple began apologizing to each other and blaming themselves for their oversight. This other visiting couple were dazed at such overwhelming personalities towards each other.
There is no predicting all the things that life will throw at you, but how you indoctrinate your mind will determine how you respond to it.. It will make you believe you are mad but you have to madly keep the vision alive..
No one is unlovable, the only problem we have is using the wrong key on them.
You and I were unlovable yet Christ has shown us so much love and still love us.
Dear Teen, the Owner of your life can cease your breath now. He can demand you return and when He does no one and nothing can stand in His way. Not your parents, siblings, friend, sin partner, beauty, character, etc.