God is much more interested in your marriage than you are and is ever willing to give you the unity you seek.
You cannot praise your spouse when you ignore their emotions and sacrifices.
A man once said during a discussion, ‘I still love my wife, but I can never trust her.’
So many homes have been wrecked because of careless trust by wives. If there’s one thing the devil is angry and envious about, it is a family unit. And he never sleeps or gets tired to see that he destroys homes.
She opened her home up by breaking the wall herself and of course opened the door to the accuser- the devil.
Do you find yourself to be in this situation? You need to open up to God and ask him to grant your home restoration even if it means subjecting you to shame. That is a prayer of sincerity. It means you’re still interested in making that marriage work.
Most marriages are shattered because of a continuous practice of selfishness and a lot of
young people are unaware of this deadly disease.
Selfishness is rude and deadly. It breeds ingratitude, prioritises oneself, doesn’t accept
mistakes, lack of understanding, taking all decisions by themselves, hurt, disrespect and
resentment.
Marriage is deep and it is only God who knows what every one’s marital journey involves because He alone knows the end from the beginning. So why not get Him involved before you step into this journey.
The appropriate question one should ask themselves and ponder over and over again until the full import of that question has been drastically internalized and processed should be, “What value/virtue are you adding to yourself as a human/woman”?
