Sometimes people wait for the validation of others to feel loved and relevant, forgetting that life is what you make of it. People can only add to what you have prepared, and secondly, not everyone will love you.
The big question is, do you need people’s opinions to validate you?
When you rely on the validation of men, you give them control of your life. They take control of the driver’s seat of your life.
You rely on men’s validation because you don’t know God’s will for your life.
When men’s approval is all that matters to you, you limit your potential and pause God’s work in you. The men you seek their approval also need another’s approval.
A perfect Designer designed your life with beautiful colors to give it a sparkle. He created and validated His beautiful work (you) by saying you are perfect, so why look on others?